5 SIGNS HE IS GIVING UP ON YOU: LOOK OUT FOR THESE RED FLAGS!

Love! The greatest power in the universe. So as they say. Throughout a girl’s lifetime, she crosses paths with someone she falls in love with. It may be once in a girls lifetime or a couple of times which entirely depends on a girl’s perception of the opposite sex.

man and woman happy relationship

Either way, when we cross paths with love and both parties meet at on the same wavelength and have a mutual feeling towards one another, the decided to commit to starting a relationship. And so, a girls fairy tale begins. So it seems.

As a famous millennial saying goes; “nothing is forever”.

Ladies! Beware and stay alert for these relationship red flags to know when your prince charming isn’t so charming anymore.

HE DOESN’T ARGUE WITH YOU ANYMORE

nagging relationship

NAGGING. One of the woman’s greatest weapons to get what they want.

Normally when a woman nags, a guy either bows down and caresses his woman or he meets his partner head on. It’s a shouting game from there. The good thing? A woman always gets the better end of the stick at the end. It’s productive. But when a guy has finally decided to give up on you? You’re not gonna see a single muscle on his face twitch whenever you’re nagging or you’re starting a fight coz you’re pissed. Lady, if you start to feel like an angry ghost that’s a relationship red flag.

HE STARTS TO ASK MORE “ME TIME”

couple sitting bench relationship

When you fall in love with a guy you feel like you want to spend every second with him doing things together almost always. He sends you “I MISS YOU”, “I MISS YOU MORE” like instantly when you separate after a whole day of smushing. It shouldn’t be hard to miss though. You know you feel suspicious when he starts saying “I need to be alone for a moment”, “ I have to go back to the things I’m doing before we met” or “The boys are asking for some time with me”.

THE SWEETNESS IN HIS TONE OF VOICE DISAPPEARS

couple arguing couple sitting bench relationship

Oh, that voice of an angel you liked hearing throughout your relationship. But wait, where is it now? The angel has now become a stranger. You’ll know it when you feel like he’s talkin’ to you like a hobo. Trust your guts dearie. It’s only gonna be you from that point on. Sarcasm is one hint. If he talks in a sarcastic way even over small stuff then you have you assume that things are not in order in your relationship.

THE WAY YOU FIGHT BECOMES DIFFERENT

couple fighting

Let’s face it, no relationship is perfect. Fights are bound to happen throughout the course or your partnership. For couples who are evidently still pretty much in love with each other, the worst fights are still cute because you’ll know that kiss and makeup are gonna be the hell there afterward. But for a guy who starts to give up on you? He’s gonna make the simplest of arguments like it’s a world war. Next thing you know, all hell will break loose and doors are gonna slam the damn shut, That’s when a tornado meets a volcano [so says the famous Eminem and Rihanna rap song goes].

HE DOESN’T ASK FOR YOUR OPINION ANYMORE

Things as simple as splashing a cologne of the colour of underwear he should wear to match the size of his crotch, he asked if you like it or if he looks good on it. But now even if you like what he’ll wear on the date night he doesn’t care. You know why? Simple, he doesn’t give a damn what you think anymore because he has given up on you.

When all is said and done, do not blame yourself for your partner’s falling out.

He’s a grown man and he has a mind of his own. It’s his mistake, not yours. But, for all, it’s worth you have to extend your hand and open a communication with him. Hell, fight for the relationship if you really love him. Just keep in mind not to give everything so you’ll have enough seed to start showing love again when all else fails between you and him. Just make sure to be mindful of these things and get ready to bring your deerstalker anytime.